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Sep 10

A TYPICAL FALL WEEK AHEAD

Hands Across The Border

Cancer de Mama. a clinic run by the campers at the La Penita RV Park

by: David Harris

We are at a trailer park that bears a strong resemblance to an Ontario summer camp .  There are crafts, games, boating and all kind of camp type activities.  The difference is, it's not kids escaping the heat of the city but retired people escaping the chill of winter.  And instead of a two week stint, these folks come in November and leave in April.  They don't sleep in tents or rustic cabins. 

Instead when they fly south they do so in these behemoth trailers that are so big you wonder how they negotiate the Mexican roads. In fact they are so huge I know some have fireplaces and washers and dryers.  It wouldn't surprise me if at least one didn't have an indoor swimming pool.  They dwarf our 25 foot Airstream.

 

These folks are often billed as having done with their productive years and are just hedonistically spending their kids' inheritance, lying on the beach like wieners on those movie theatre roller type rotisseries.   Nothing could be further from the truth.  In fact they are a close knit bunch of adventurous snow birds who have worked a lifetime to earn the right to now live the life they've always dreamed of.  They are out jogging, doing calisthenics, swimming, riding their bicycles, attending classes and volunteering . . . lots of volunteering.

We learned something this weekend.  Huntsville doesn't have the market cornered on good people.  At dawn on Saturday morning we were awakened by the majority of people in the park already up and getting ready for the weekend event.  As recent arrivals this was news to us, they were hosting a weekend long free breast cancer clinic that they alone organized for Mexican women.  This was the second year of this three day event where women from all over the state of Nayarit who have had mastectomies can come and get prostheses.  There were over 60 men and mainly women from the park who volunteered.  Ordinary Canadians and Americans who brought down supplies from home and then fitted the women and sewed them up in new bras.  Last year they helped 250 cancer victims; this year, as the word spread, bus loads came from all over the state and the final tally should exceed 500.  To see the  tragic extent of this disease, which respects no border or nationality, is unsettling, but then to see these retirees response is inspirational.

 

The campground was consumed with the event for the entire  weekend.  All the 'gringa' ladies in pink tees  totally engaged themselves for countless hours handling the crowd, each with a job and in typical back home efficiency doing it in a no nonsense fashion.

Someone got the bright idea that those who have lost their hair to chemo needed head gear.  So they quickly got busy on the sewing machines and creative caps were manufactured and handed out on the spot.

It was so heart warming to see the appreciation of the Mexican recipients and their families. Usually shy and reserved, they smiled and greeted everyone with warmth.  You could tell from their demeanor how much this meant to them that people from another culture cared about their personal horror.

And this was not an isolated endeavour.  Last night was the Super Bowl instead of it being just an excuse for a party, they built in a fund raising silent auction. 

It seems each week there is some volunteer event.  Tuesday it's a charity fashion show and the following week another fund raiser for a local nurse who travels  the back country distributing food and clothing to the truly poor and needy.

Every one of these campers collects what they can over the summer and fall, stocks their big rigs with clothes, school supplies and medical appliances and brings them south. 

What surprises me, and I know it's dangerous to generalize, but why is it mainly older people who are doing the lion's share of the giving back?  Maybe it takes a lifetime to appreciate the value of giving.  Maybe younger people are too busy acquiring so they can remain the givers and not fear being left as receivers.  Perhaps it's as simple as, when you've made it and have the time to sit back and enjoy the fruits of a lifetime of labour . . . that only then can you truly appreciate what life has given you, that you just want to say thanks.


David Harris is the editor and publisher of the Huntsville Online.

  1. written by S. Lehman, February 08, 2010
    And to think that all these people were in secondary school before Tony Clement's former boss Mike Harris made volunteerism mandatory. Should be interesting to see how that turns out in thirty years.
  2. written by Paul Myers, February 08, 2010
    hey David,
    Greetings from Barra de Navidad , a few hundred kilometres south of you. Your experience of the charitable efforts in the trailer park would be very similar to the community here. Expats and winter escapees all contibuting to a range of projects to help the least fortunate Mexicans,while those better off Mexicans join in too. Last Saturday we participated in the rotary club annual chili cookoff, funds raised go directly to small infrastructure improvements and additions. The local rotarians just finished contructing a school building , properly insulated, it opened last week. Other local projects include another school built for children of migrant workers, the purchase of an ambulance, the restoration of a freshwater lagoon, the renovation of the local town square, upgrades to the old folks home, free spay and neuter clinics for pets, the list goes on.
    As to why its generally the older folks who volunteer , I'm sure its because they can, they have time and money and perspective.
    Hasta luego Paul
  3. written by Steve S,, February 09, 2010
    David

    In all fairness to we young people, well young being under 40 haha.. We have grown up and been thrust into a society here in Canada where the only way to get started is to take debt. Which leaves most of us working extended hours with no future retirement in sight. Social Security will be a myth of the past by the time we hit that age.

    Also many of us do put our time into volunteerism or other ways of helping others. The problem is time and I think we have been brainwashed with comments like enjoy your youth before its gone; enjoy your young child because they will soon be grown up. All these words of wisdom and circumstances of "Canadian modern society" - I think that makes most of us feel like we are running out of time, every minute counts, etc etc.

    I guess that's why I moved to Huntsville - to try and slow it down a bit. So far its working, when the sun shines and Muskoka is green I have more interest in surroundings and people than racing with the other rats.

    Just a thought as I hear this quite a bit from my respected wiser generations ahead of me, choose your words wisely when giving advice. Instead of "you better enjoy these times while you can" or "Enjoy life while you can", etc etc - Try "Take in the moment, enjoy your surroundings" - you get the idea.

    Help us not feel like we are being rushed along, and maybe some of the younger people will wake up and help the community at large!

    Good to see our retirees are taking the time and resources to help in another country where it's not widely available! Good Job!

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